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Autism is complex and deserves our utmost understanding, care, and focus. My mission is to help families help their children become the people they envision to be. Doing so requires easy to use tools, flexible strategies, and creative solutions.
   

Welcome to ESDM Online, a resource for parents and providers eager to discover ways to help children connect, communicate, and learn. Here, you will find examples, tips, activities, the latest research findings, videos, and much more to support your goals as a parent or provider. Join the community and become part of this mission to create positive learning experiences for children.
  1. Giving children opportunities to practice their skills through play and everyday activities.
  2. Creating a welcoming, accessible and nonjudgemental space to hear about and share ideas.
  3. Helping children feel calm, safe and supported.
Together, let's nurture meaningful growth and positive experiences for every child.
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Active Ingredients for Change
 
Young children learn best when having fun. Whether it is play, bath, meal time, or another routine, each moment can involve the ESDM to help children connect, communicate, and learn. See how you can get started with the ESDM with your child or the families whom you support in an early childhood learning environment.
Quick Tip

Find out how to use tips from the ESDM for early social-communication skills important to life-long learning, behavior, and health with your child or with families whom you support in an early childhood learning environment.

Learn about agency in early childhood that shows how adults can notice a child’s spark, follow their interests, and gently extend their ideas to strengthen engagement, communication, and confidence.

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Latest News

Read monthly research about intervention outcomes for children with or at risk of autism; coaching supports for their families; and/or family-centered, culturally inclusive coaching tools to help early childhood professionals support families. Each monthly article is publicly available for free access.


This month's Latest News looks at brain connectivity in autistic children and adults to understand how their brains communicate across different regions. Rather than looking for one single “autism pattern,” the researchers explored the many ways brain networks can differ from person to person. Their goal was to understand why autism presents so differently across individuals — and how these differences in brain connectivity relate to strengths, challenges, and developmental pathways.

Click the article (to the right) to learn how the researchers mapped brain networks across individuals and how these findings deepen our understanding of autism’s neurological diversity.
What They Found

The study revealed that autism is not defined by one uniform pattern of brain connectivity. Instead, researchers found a wide range of connectivity differences across individuals. Key findings included:

  • Autistic people show diverse patterns of connectivity, with some brain networks communicating more strongly than typical and others communicating less strongly.

  • These patterns vary widely across individuals, meaning two autistic people may have very different connectivity profiles even if they share similar behavioral characteristics.

  • Connectivity differences appear at multiple levels, from small, nearby circuits to large, long‑distance networks that link distant parts of the brain.

  • The location of these differences matters more than the number of them. Reduced connectivity tended to cluster in somatomotor, frontal, and temporal regions, and in connections between sensory‑motor systems and attention networks — patterns that align with sensory processing differences, motor coordination challenges, and social communication needs.

  • Some networks showed increased connectivity, especially within the default mode network (DMN) and between the DMN and other systems. Because the DMN supports inward‑focused thinking, this pattern may relate to reduced external engagement and social interaction.

  • Elevated connectivity also appeared in the frontoparietal network, which supports cognitive flexibility and task switching — consistent with the behavioral inflexibility some autistic individuals experience.

  • No single connectivity pattern explained autism, reinforcing that autism is highly heterogeneous and cannot be reduced to one biological signature.

What This Means in Practice

This research highlights that autism is not one pathway but many. For clinicians, educators, and families, this reinforces the importance of:

  • Individualized intervention planning, since each child’s developmental profile reflects a unique pattern of strengths and needs.

  • Avoiding “one‑size‑fits‑all” expectations, because children may respond differently to the same supports based on their underlying neurobiology.

  • Focusing on functional skills and engagement, rather than trying to fit children into narrow developmental norms.

  • Recognizing that differences in sensory processing, attention, and social engagement may have neurological roots, and supporting these areas with compassion and flexibility.

  • Using strengths‑based approaches, since connectivity differences can also reflect unique ways of processing information, learning, and interacting with the world.


Why This Matters

Understanding the diversity of brain connectivity in autism helps shift the conversation from “What causes autism?” to “How can we support each autistic person’s unique way of learning and experiencing the world?” This study reinforces that autism is not a single profile — it is a spectrum of neurodevelopmental pathways. For families and professionals, this means embracing individualized expectations, celebrating each child’s strengths, and designing supports that honor their distinct developmental journey. 

Play of the Month
 
Play not only brings smiles to children's faces but also helps them learn, feel good about themselves, and enjoy the interaction that comes from doing something with someone. Join me each month for Play of the Month to try with your child or the families whom you support in early intervention or other early childhood learning environment.

Cookie sheets turn everyday play into magnetic, sensory, and imaginative moments of connection. This Play of the Month transforms a simple household item into a shared surface for sticking, sliding, painting, sorting, pretending, and storytelling—meeting toddlers and preschoolers right where they are developmentally. With just a cookie sheet and a few magnets, balls, brushes, or pictures, play becomes a space for sensory exploration, early problem‑solving, flexible thinking, and those gentle moments of shared attention that strengthen relationships and communication. Whether families are sliding magnets down a tilted tray, creating wipe‑away art, building simple pathways, arranging magnetic scenes, or imagining the cookie sheet as a stovetop, roadway, or story stage, the focus stays on connection, curiosity, and co‑creating joyful experiences together. 

See below for activity ideas and learning goals linked to the ESDM Curriculum Checklist items to help you discover the play level that best suits your child or the children and families you support in early learning environments. 

Pay attention to what children like (or seem curious about) and follow their lead as long as you are a part of the action, too. Remember, the most important thing is for children to have fun doing this with you! Fun means engagement and that excites children's brains and bodies for meaningful learning to happen.

Simple Play (Sensorimotor & Exploratory)

These activities focus on cause-and-effect, sensory exploration, and basic motor skills—like banging, mouthing, or dropping—just to see what happens.

  • Shaker Tray Exploration — Put a few small items (pom‑poms, bells, large beads) on the cookie sheet and gently shake it together. Notice the sounds, movements, and patterns. Invite the child to take a turn shaking or pointing to what moved.

  • Rolling Balls or Cars — Use a cookie sheet as a mini ramp. Roll a ball or car down together. Pause before releasing to build anticipation and encourage the child to request “more,” “go,” or a gesture.

  • Sound Play with Metal Tools — Tap wooden spoons, silicone spatulas, or soft mallets on the cookie sheet. Explore loud/soft, fast/slow, and imitate each other’s actions.

  • Magnet Discovery Board — Offer a small set of magnets and let the child explore sticking, pulling off, and repositioning. Narrate simple actions (“You pulled it off!”) and follow their lead.

  • Painting, wiping, brushing, and spreading materials on a cookie sheet— Use finger paint, shaving cream, yogurt, pudding, or a thin layer of sensory foam on the cookie sheet. Invite the child to explore with their fingers, hands, or simple tools (brushes, sponges, scrapers). Notice the marks they make, the sounds of brushing on metal, and the visual changes as they wipe or spread. Pause to let the child initiate the next action, imitate their movements, or take turns making simple strokes. This supports cause‑and‑effect learning, sensory regulation, early imitation, and shared attention.


Combination Play (Functional & Constructive)

These activities involve using materials together with intention—building, matching, or organizing.

  • Magnet Sorting Zones — Use painter’s tape to divide the cookie sheet into sections. Provide magnets of different shapes or colors and sort together. Encourage turn‑taking (“Your turn to put one in the blue zone”).

  • Build‑and‑Slide Pathways — Create simple tracks or barriers using magnet tiles or cardboard strips taped to the cookie sheet. Roll balls or cars through the path. Problem‑solve together when something gets stuck.

  • Picture Matching Board — Tape pictures (animals, foods, familiar objects) to the cookie sheet and provide matching magnets. Support the child in finding matches, placing them, and celebrating completion.

  • Magnet Puzzles — Use magnetic letters, shapes, or puzzle pieces. Place a few on the cookie sheet and help the child find where each belongs. Model simple language (“This one goes here”).

  • Cookie‑Sheet Construction Zone — Use magnetic tiles or metal lids to build simple structures on the cookie sheet. Work together to stack, arrange, or create patterns.

  • Magnet Art Collage — Provide magnetic shapes, letters, or picture magnets. Children arrange them on the cookie sheet to create patterns, simple scenes, or designs.

  • Tape‑Resist Painting on Cookie Sheet — Place painter’s tape in lines or shapes on the cookie sheet. Children paint over it, then peel the tape to reveal patterns.Targets: following steps, noticing outcomes, building simple concepts (“under/over,” “cover/uncover”).

  • Sticker + Paint Layering — Put stickers on the cookie sheet, paint around them, then peel to reveal shapes.Targets: combining materials, completing a sequence, early planning.


Symbolic Play (Pretend & Representational)

These activities support imagination, role play, and storytelling.

  • Binoculars or Telescope — Tape two tubes together (or look through one), decorate it (use markers, stickers, glitter) and pretend to explore the room, look for animals, or go on a “safari.”

  • Cookie‑Sheet “Kitchen” — Use magnets shaped like foods or tape pictures of foods to the cookie sheet. Pretend it’s a stovetop or baking tray. Cook together, serve food, or “check if it’s ready.”

  • Magnet Story Scenes — Create a background (park, ocean, house) by taping a picture to the cookie sheet. Add character magnets and act out simple stories—characters go places, find things, or need help.

  • Vehicle Rescue Board — Place magnet vehicles on the cookie sheet and pretend they’re stuck. Use a magnet “rescue crane” (a magnet tied to a string) to save them. Build simple narratives (“Oh no, the car needs help”).

  • Dress‑Up Magnets — Use magnetic dress‑up dolls or pictures with clothing magnets. Pretend the characters are getting ready for school, bedtime, or an adventure.

  • Cookie‑Sheet Farm or Zoo — Tape animal pictures to the cookie sheet and use magnets as food, water, or tools. Feed animals, put them to sleep, or help them solve small pretend problems.

  • Weather Board Pretend Play — Paint clouds, sun, rain, or snow on the cookie sheet. Add magnets to change the weather and talk about what characters do in each condition.Targets: perspective taking, simple problem‑solving, imaginative play.

  • Cookie‑Sheet Story Canvas with Magnet Characters — Paint a simple background on the cookie sheet—this could be a sky, ocean, forest, house, road, or garden. Once it’s dry, add magnets or small figures and use the cookie sheet as a story stage. Characters can “walk,” “talk,” explore the scene, solve small pretend problems, or act out simple narratives together. The cookie sheet becomes a portable storytelling surface where you and the child can build shared pretend play.

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