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Autism is complex and deserves our utmost understanding, care, and focus. My mission is to help families help their children become the people they envision to be. Doing so requires easy to use tools, flexible strategies, and creative solutions.
   

Welcome to ESDM Online, a resource for parents and providers eager to discover ways to help children connect, communicate, and learn. Here, you will find examples, tips, activities, the latest research findings, videos, and much more to support your goals as a parent or provider. Join the community and become part of this mission to create positive learning experiences for children.
  1. Giving children opportunities to practice their skills through play and everyday activities.
  2. Creating a welcoming, accessible and nonjudgemental space to hear about and share ideas.
  3. Helping children feel calm, safe and supported.
Together, let's nurture meaningful growth and positive experiences for every child.
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Active Ingredients for Change
 
Young children learn best when having fun. Whether it is play, bath, meal time, or another routine, each moment can involve the ESDM to help children connect, communicate, and learn. See how you can get started with the ESDM with your child or the families whom you support in an early childhood learning environment.
Quick Tip 

Find out how to use tips from the ESDM for early social-communication skills important to life-long learning, behavior, and health with your child or with families whom you support in an early childhood learning environment.

Drawing on insights from a Sunday Times article on parent–child brain synchrony, interactive story time does more than entertain. Research shows that when adults and children read together, their brains begin to synchronize, supporting attention, connection, and understanding. The more engaging and responsive the reading experience is, the stronger this synchrony becomes.

This month’s Quick Tip highlights how tuning into a child’s regulation needs—through movement, sensory input, and predictable routines—creates the foundation for learning and connection. Regulation is a child’s ability to feel organized and steady enough inside their body to participate in play, communication, and relationships. It’s not about being calm or still; it’s about feeling available. When we support regulation, we open the door for children to show their thinking, curiosity, and capacity for meaningful engagement.

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Latest News

Read monthly research about intervention outcomes for children with or at risk of autism; coaching supports for their families; and/or family-centered, culturally inclusive coaching tools to help early childhood professionals support families. Each monthly article is publicly available for free access.


This month's Latest News explores the ​complex relationship between how autism parent-mediated interventions (PMIs) are delivered in Part C Early Intervention systems and the outcomes for caregivers. Findings show that provider fidelity to the intervention model was linked to caregivers’ use of specific strategies, while thoughtful adaptations strengthened the therapeutic alliance. Together, these results highlight the importance of training models that help providers maintain core intervention elements while flexibly tailoring PMIs to diverse families and service contexts—supporting both caregiver engagement and strong provider–caregiver relationships.


What They Found
  • Provider Fidelity: Coaching fidelity (how closely providers followed the manual) was not directly related to caregiver ratings of engagement or alliance.
  • Adaptations: When providers augmented or adapted sessions, caregivers reported stronger therapeutic alliance, though this did not increase participatory engagement.
  • Caregiver Outcomes: Caregivers improved in self-efficacy and use of Project ImPACT strategies over time.
  • Child Outcomes: Gains were observed in children’s social communication skills, though the link between provider fidelity and child outcomes was less straightforward.
What This Means in Practice
  • Balance Fidelity and Flexibility: Follow intervention guidelines but adapt responsively to family needs and contexts.

  • Prioritize Alliance: Building trust and collaboration with caregivers may be as critical as technical fidelity.

  • Support Caregiver Confidence: Provide coaching that enhances caregiver self-efficacy, as this predicts sustained strategy use.

  • Use Video Feedback: Behavioral coding of sessions can help providers reflect on both fidelity and adaptations.

  • Focus on Everyday Routines: Embed strategies into natural family routines to increase relevance and sustainability.

Why It Matters

This study shows that bringing evidence‑based interventions into everyday early intervention programs is more complicated than it might seem. It also suggests that following a model “by the book” doesn’t automatically lead to strong caregiver engagement or a positive working relationship. What seems to matter just as much is the ability to adapt in thoughtful, responsive ways that help families feel supported and understood. These findings highlight the importance of approaches that balance fidelity with the realities of each family, provider, and community setting, so that interventions can work well in real life—not just in research studies.


Click the article (above) to learn more about why strong relationships—not just strict fidelity—drive meaningful early intervention outcomes.

Play of the Month
 
Play not only brings smiles to children's faces but also helps them learn, feel good about themselves, and enjoy the interaction that comes from doing something with someone. Join me each month for Play of the Month to try with your child or the families whom you support in early intervention or other early childhood learning environment.

Magnet tiles open the door to endless building, exploring, and imagining. This Play of the Month invites children to click, stack, slide, sort, and create—turning simple geometric pieces into towers, roads, rockets, animal homes, or whole pretend worlds. With just a handful of tiles, play becomes a space for connection, communication, problem‑solving, and joyful discovery.

See below for activity ideas and learning goals linked to the ESDM Curriculum Checklist items to help you discover the play level that best suits your child or the children and families you support in early learning environments. 

Pay attention to what children like (or seem curious about) and follow their lead as long as you are a part of the action, too. Remember, the most important thing is for children to have fun doing this with you! Fun means engagement and that excites children's brains and bodies for meaningful learning to happen.

Simple Play (Sensorimotor & Exploratory)

These activities focus on cause-and-effect, sensory exploration, and basic motor skills—like banging, mouthing, or dropping—just to see what happens.

  • Tile Peek‑Through- Hold a tile up to your face and peek through the center. Invite the child to look through different colors and notice how the world changes.
  • Spin & Slide- Place a tile flat on the floor and gently spin it like a top. Experiment with how fast or slow you can make it go.
  • Sticky Tile Wall- Stick tiles to the fridge, dishwasher, or any magnetic surface. Let the child pull them off, rearrange them, or simply explore the “stick–unstick” action.
  • Tile Line- Make a long line of tiles on the floor and invite the child to walk beside it, jump over it, or drive a car along it like a road.
  • Slide & Drop- Prop a single tile against a book to make a tiny ramp and let cars, balls, or other small objects that will fit roll down.
  • Light Play- Hold tiles up to a window or flashlight and notice how the colors change on the wall or floor.
  • Build & Knock- Stack a few tiles into a small tower and let the child knock it down — a classic for practicing repetition and prediction.

Combination Play (Functional & Constructive)

These activities involve using materials together with intention—building, matching, or organizing.

  • Simple Houses- Use 3–4 tiles to make a tiny house shape. Add a door tile and invite the child to open/close it.

  • Color Towers- Sort tiles by color and build a tower for each one. Compare which tower is taller or shorter.

  • Bridges & Roads- Use tiles to make a bridge and drive cars underneath or across the top.

  • Ramps + Catchers- Build a ramp with tiles and place a bowl or basket at the bottom to “catch” rolling objects.
  • Tile “Parking Spots”- Lay out tiles on the floor as individual parking spaces. Invite the child to match cars to each tile or line them up in a row or pattern.
  • Build + Fill- Create a small square or rectangle “container” with tiles and offer loose items (pom‑poms, blocks, animals) to place inside. Children love filling, dumping, and refilling.
  • Tile Train- Connect tiles in a long line to make a “train,” then add a few toy people or animals to ride on top. You can even make a “caboose” by adding a roof.
  • Matching Shapes- Build a simple shape (triangle, square, diamond) and invite the child to build the same one beside it. This supports visual matching and early problem‑solving.
  • Build a Tunnel- Use two upright tiles and one across the top to make a tiny tunnel.
    Cars, animals, or even fingers can go through — a great early engineering moment.

Symbolic Play (Pretend & Representational)

These activities support imagination, role play, and storytelling.

  • Ice Cream Shop- Use triangle tiles as cones and squares as “flavors.” Take turns ordering and serving. Include dolls, stuffed animals, toy figurines, or other people as customers.
  • Animal Homes- Build a cave, barn, or nest for toy animals. Add a simple story: “The baby bear needs a cozy bed.”
  • People Playground- Create a slide, tiny house, or bridge for figurines and narrate what the characters are doing.
  • Rocket Ship Launch- Stack tiles into a tall rocket and count down before “blast off.”
  • Doctor’s X‑Ray- Hold a tile over a stuffed animal and pretend it’s an X‑ray screen showing what’s inside.
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